Expats are mostly sweet folks, but there's always one or two. Here's how to avoid being that guy.
Resist the urge to compare everything to U.S. pop culture.
崔健 is not China's Bruce Springsteen. Rain is not the Justin Timberlake of Korea. 張懸 is no Taiwanese Feist. Don't think of the local music as "a decade behind America." Let that go. The point of living abroad is to ditch the pop cultural references you've built your identity around. Embrace that freedom.
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Relax. Not everything has to do with Confucianism, Shintoism, Taoism, or anything of the big -isms.
Travel blogs will have you believe that Asia runs on the C-man's teachings, but I've never heard anyone namedrop Confucianism in my 17 years in Taiwan. Imagine if someone ran around Portland yelling "totes Judeo-Christian, brah!" That's not only stilted, but probably pretty unhelpful to understanding Portland.
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Go beyond expat enclaves.
In high school, I remember walking back home and seeing my classmate – a skinny exchange student from Florida – playing an er hu with old motorcycle mechanics in full goth makeup. Now that's a boss.
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No, the women aren't more subservient, nor are the men more chauvinist than the average expat.
Some bros assume all of Asia's a conservative Neverland where feminism never happened. The truth is there are progressive and retrograde people everywhere, not just Asia. Count yourself among the progressive by not assuming the above.
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